It is not surprising when you find you kid or your
little students are silent and introvert. There are many reasons people in this
world born in their different types. There are many causes why children are
born introvert anyway. We are as parents and teachers should never
underestimate to our children who are introvert as they will never be successful.
There are some proofs that Mahatma Gandhi, Emma Watson, Bill Gates are all
introvert people and they are successful persons.
Parents and teachers should not push these introvert children
become extrovert children. This will effect to their emotion. Sometimes
introvert children would be known as shy children. But wait. It is not always
shy children are introvert. It is really different. There are some tips to
handle introvert children like the one is like introvert children need some
alone time to recharge. Recharge here which means like they need to incorporate
their thought. This will help them to release all stress that they feel and they
do to express to other.
Sometime introvert children find problem like they are
hard to express their feeling. They may feel embarrassed or shy to express their
feeling. We are parents need to courage them to do this. Human need to express
their feeling but to stimulate them to express their feeling then you can give
some media for them like you can buy them drawing books and ask them to draw their
feeling anyway. This will means a lot. Or even you can ask your children to
write story daily about their feeling.
When introvert children growing become teens then, they
will tend to use gadget as their communication. It is fine, you can provide
them the communication gadget for them as well. But remember you need to watch
out their usage of their gadget. Control their usage of gadget for sure. You
can check their gadget. Give them advice to use the gadget to communicate to the
people whom they know personally. Watch out their internet browsing. Make them
away from pornography.
You need to get rid of the labeling you children who
are introvert as the shy children. The word shy is high stigmatized label for introvert
children for sure. This will trouble your children anyway. You should not label
them as like that. Just let them grow up. Change your words since now on this
will help your introvert children to grow up their personality better. Nothing wrong with introvert personality. You
need other what to make your children are able to speak up for what they feel.
Expose your children to the new social settings. You
can ask your children to join new community at their level. Meet them some good
friends, this will make them become more open to people for sure. Introvert children
may feel nervous when they meet new people. Meeting with new people and friends
will gradually make away their nervous. This process would be real natural. This
also could be the therapy for introvert children to make away their nervous.
Give them some chances to grow up!
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