Introvert Kids: How to Care for Them!


It is not surprising when you find you kid or your little students are silent and introvert. There are many reasons people in this world born in their different types. There are many causes why children are born introvert anyway. We are as parents and teachers should never underestimate to our children who are introvert as they will never be successful. There are some proofs that Mahatma Gandhi, Emma Watson, Bill Gates are all introvert people and they are successful persons.
Parents and teachers should not push these introvert children become extrovert children. This will effect to their emotion. Sometimes introvert children would be known as shy children. But wait. It is not always shy children are introvert. It is really different. There are some tips to handle introvert children like the one is like introvert children need some alone time to recharge. Recharge here which means like they need to incorporate their thought. This will help them to release all stress that they feel and they do to express to other.

Sometime introvert children find problem like they are hard to express their feeling. They may feel embarrassed or shy to express their feeling. We are parents need to courage them to do this. Human need to express their feeling but to stimulate them to express their feeling then you can give some media for them like you can buy them drawing books and ask them to draw their feeling anyway. This will means a lot. Or even you can ask your children to write story daily about their feeling.

When introvert children growing become teens then, they will tend to use gadget as their communication. It is fine, you can provide them the communication gadget for them as well. But remember you need to watch out their usage of their gadget. Control their usage of gadget for sure. You can check their gadget. Give them advice to use the gadget to communicate to the people whom they know personally. Watch out their internet browsing. Make them away from pornography. 

You need to get rid of the labeling you children who are introvert as the shy children. The word shy is high stigmatized label for introvert children for sure. This will trouble your children anyway. You should not label them as like that. Just let them grow up. Change your words since now on this will help your introvert children to grow up their personality better.  Nothing wrong with introvert personality. You need other what to make your children are able to speak up for what they feel. 

Expose your children to the new social settings. You can ask your children to join new community at their level. Meet them some good friends, this will make them become more open to people for sure. Introvert children may feel nervous when they meet new people. Meeting with new people and friends will gradually make away their nervous. This process would be real natural. This also could be the therapy for introvert children to make away their nervous. Give them some chances to grow up!


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