Teaching Children to Become Confident

Everyone needs to be confidence. Confident is the main key to get along and make friends with the others. So, from the beginning you need to teach your children so that they become confident. So here are actually the things that parents and teachers need to do including the treatments for your children. So, let’s give you a glance of the treatments for your kids as you should not give any exaggerate compliments to your children like “That’s a wonderful painting I have ever seen”. This will actually make your compliment become ignored by your children just simply point out the truth like “I like the purple color in that building”. Let’s check out those tips below here, so go and read more!

The first tip that you can do to your children is like “don’t rescue your children”. This means like when your children are not invited to the birthday party then, you should not have struggle to make your children included in the birthday party. Pressuring the football coach to insist of your own child to join the competition team and many others and also children should have their own struggle to place themselves in the little society near them. So it is like you introduce them that actually it is okay to fail, to feel upset, anxious, and others since they will learn succeed by passing some obstacles and failures. 

The second tip is let him to make a decision. So, parents should know when the children should take their own decision. It is like parents should not offer to 3 years old children what kinds of the food that they want to eat.  You can just serve your children the meals that you already arranged for them like peanut butter, jelly, and pasta. So, choose the thing that is better for children to chose but not for the significant matter. 

The third tip sis that focus on the glass with half full. It is like when your children are disappointed to the things which those things impacts to their emotion and all. So, you need to help them to be optimistic which means you need to tell to your children that actually failure is a normal thing and so on. It is better to say “let’s come with other plans for how you can increase the chances of getting the part you want next time”. This word will make them more optimistic to do the next job. 

The fourth tip is that nurture their special interests. It is very important to make your children develop their interests for sure. It is better to support their hobbies since the hobbies are their interests. This will encourage their confidence for sure. They will have the skills so that they will be more confident in the area. Make sure that you support your children hobbies. Sometime children may talk to you that they want to be something that they want including their dream they want to be. See you at the other next post. Bye bye!

(source: parentsociety.com)