Thing You Are Better not to Say to Your Children

Hi, parents, teaching children are so important for you to develop their characters. You need to know that actually you need to know the best ways to teach your children including for how to talk to children and the things that you should not say to your children. Now parents, you need to know the things you should not say to your children. Let’s check them out below!

Sometime parents, say something that make children feel confused, angry, or even hurt. So, parents need to know the best things should be avoided to be said to the children. Parents may suffer kinds of the depression or even get stressed. Parents may say “leave me alone” to their children. The best thing that you have to know is that this kind of the statement said to the children is a big no. You may want to stay alone. But from the infancy, you need to make your children understand that you also have sometime to be alone. Like you can co-op with your baby sitter since they were children or just park your children to watch the movie. 

Other than that, you also need to change the statement like “don’t cry” into “don’t be sad” this would cause their feeling. Children would rather be so sad and express their feeling with crying. It is better for you to say don’t be sad. This will help them to realize that kind o the feeling that is sad and also help them to encourage their feeling for sure. Since, you name their emotion that is sad, this will help them to describe their emotion and they will cry less. 

The other words which should be avoided while you are with your children that is parents should not say “why can’t you be more like your sisters”. This is a clear for the comparison.  Comparison would never help your children to change their behaviors. Instead of saying that, you can only encourage your children instead if comparing them to the elders. 

The next word that you should not say to your children is that “you know better than that” This kind of the utterance actually would never be encouraging your children to do much better but instead of that you can just say “I like it better if you do this way”. Including the jabs like “I can’t believe you did that” and also it is “about matter of time”. 

As parents you also should not say the words like “wait till daddy get home” in some case to stop children to do something that is not fine. So, you need to taking care the child’s situation immediately this kind of the way is only to postpone. This will never be working for sure. It will also undermine your authority for sure. So, better you tell the truth and make them work. You also need to know that saying hurry up would just make your children feeling so hectic especially when you say it to your little children.

(source: parenting.com)